~~ or 'Living in Denial'

There are people in this world who are organized. They always leave for work on time, never forget to buy cat food, and always say "Happy Birthday!" because they remembered that it is in fact your birthday. These are people with perpetually clean underwear, small electronic gizmos that store their appointment times, and extra bundt cake pans to loan out to neighbors. They have clean cars, clean houses, clean shoes, and clean refrigerators. And they always look well-rested.

I am not one of these people.

With this blog I am hoping to explore some ways of improving time management for normal, disorganized individuals (like me!), and especially for harried college students. With all the technology, research, psychology and social support around us, this shouldn't be impossible.

...Right?

But then again...there is another side to time management; the delectible art of wasting time. And I would be completely remiss if I didn't explore that just a little bit, wouldn't I?






Sunday, September 12, 2010

The Big Picture

Last week was horrible. All-nighters to finish homework, last minute cramming for Math tests, hitting the 'Submit Assignment' button on practically the last minute, and feeling as though I could use another 12-or-so hours of sleep... So I thought it was time to start figuring out a better way to do things. First step? Put down my 6 page 'To-Do' list (that I've been staring ineffectively at for the last hour). Second step? Browse the web for advice...

If I was overwhelmed by my gigantonormous 'To-Do' list, I don't think Googling 'Time Management' helped. 430 million results. Sheesh. Well, at least I'm not the only one with issues.

In reading through site after article after blog after everything else, I've come to a few conclusions:
  1. Time Management means different things for different people; it's all about where your priorities are and what you're trying to accomplish.
  2. Because your own personal priorities may be different from other peoples', a lot of the advice on the web contradicts other peoples' advice. (Some people are pro-multi-tasking, others say it's counter-productive, that sort of thing...)
  3. Self-control is a good thing. (Yes I can walk away from Warcraft...)
  4. Organization is a good thing. (I can also sort the mail instead of throwing it on the floor. Now if I could just find the file-box that I put my sorted mail in...)
  5. To-Do lists are a good thing. But only if you use them right: One must prioritize.

All in all, priorities were the major theme. Are you trying to finish all assignments on time? Trying to have more time with loved ones? Trying to get that promotion? It's important to define what that overshadowing goal is. Then decide what is it that you're willing to temporarily shove to the side in order to make that happen. (Again with the self-control. Sacrifice is a good thing. Dammit.)

Later I think I'll start a list of some of the good sites I've visited. But for right now, I think the thing I need to do is ask myself that one really big question - the one that makes everything else moot without it: "What is my priority?"

(I'll put that at the top of my 'To-Do' list.)

3 comments:

  1. I can agree with you on time management and needing to prioritize. I've spent too many weekends with a picture perfect view of what having finished homework will be like. Its not very fun to start the week regretting the 6 hours I spent playing video games.

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  2. I can definitely get behind the idea of prioritization... I can't tell you how many times I've had a list of things to do before me, but because I can't decide on what to do first, I end up getting absolutely nothing done!

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  3. Thank you! Thank you! for creating this blog. Often I feel like I'm the only one who is overwhelmed with all the studying I know I need to do in order to succeed in more and more challenging classes. It's nice feel like there is a quazi-support group here with the other followers :-) The reminder about prioritization was helpful too. Too often I find myself studying the subjects I feel comfortable with as opposed to the ones that I need to get down order to graduate.

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